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| I feel well sorry for her. Seeing her in the diary room then, she didnt mean the things she said. But some people have made it much worse than it actually is, and now shes gonna have it hard, just because some people have over-reacted.
At first i was mad, because i thought Jade was out of order, but seeing her say Sorry, i think she meant it. She realised what she did and was genuinally sorry in my opinion.
I know people will disagree with me, i just cant help feeling sorry for her  I know shes isnt perfect, and i hate bullying, but i dont think Jade meant half the things she said, and shes gonna regret it so much. |
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| becki - 19/1/2007 21:38 I feel well sorry for her. Seeing her in the diary room then, she didnt mean the things she said. But some people have made it much worse than it actually is, and now shes gonna have it hard, just because some people have over-reacted. At first i was mad, because i thought Jade was out of order, but seeing her say Sorry, i think she meant it. She realised what she did and was genuinally sorry in my opinion. I know people will disagree with me, i just cant help feeling sorry for her I know shes isnt perfect, and i hate bullying, but i dont think Jade meant half the things she said, and shes gonna regret it so much. Aw you have a kind heart Becki. My problem is that we are all responsible for what we do and what we say in this life. Jade was quite happy to sit there with an audience bolstering her confidence and spouting these things off. Jade has been taken to task and been tipped off as to what she has done and what the attitude is on the 'outside world' . What you saw in the Diary Room is the result of the knowledge she has received from BB who are preparing her for the problem she will face. Jade would not have shutup and Jade would most certainly have continued her assault on Shilpa if nothing had been said. Both girls have been told what to do and what to say on camera as this is all a very very serious issue indeed. I am disgusted in Jade Becki, but like you, I can afford her sympathy because she has just destroyed her own foundations and no one would wish that on anyone would they? Its a very sorry business all round. |
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| I felt sorry for Jade before the speech have to be honest I didn't really care about her before and now I have seen her I don't like her. She has been set up by Endemol in the name of entertainment, Endemol strike again, putting the ratings before the contestants. They should have intervened long before they did and they should not have shown the argument over oxo cubes that was like committing tv suicide. How much more did people hate Jade after that. I understand what they are doing now it is called damage limitation, however you can't control how people think and not everyone is fickle. Some people do not forgive easily. I don't think Jade is a racist, but I think she used ractist undertones in her arguement to hurt Shilpa. She knew what she was doing IMO, but at the time she got carried away. Her apology is cringeworthy I think it is more about her being afraid of losing things rather than remorse for any pain she caused Shilpa and her fellow country men. It is obvious she was tipped off and it was only fair. I hope she doesn't have a hard time, she doesn't want to be seen as a racist, and I don't think she is, she is more of a bully when she is angry and a control freak IMO. She needs to attend anger managment classes and do something for charity maybe this will help, but I think it will be a long road back, hope she makes it back because if she doesn't it means her life is in tatters all in the name of so called entertainment, and some people are very rich at her expense. As for Shilpa she will be fine, she isn't perfect and none of us are but she didn't deserve the insults from Jade and co's mouths. I think she has been quite dignified and she may even win it. I'd like either her or Dirk Jermaine or maybe even Ian to win, because of the way they have handled themselves around the situation. Cleo I am on the fence with, but I think she supported Jade more I may be wrong I hope I am wrong but I just don't know.
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Location: Scottish Borders | You're not going to tell me that Jade wasn't primed for that interview.
I've never heard her sound so articulate. 
And I also believe the boos in the studio were too controlled to be genuine.
The nation demanded boos, so they gave us some. 
Davina concentrated on the racism, but I wanted to hear more about the bullying and why all the girls took so much against Shilpa.
All in all though, I do think Jade came over as well as she could in the circumstances. |
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| Awww Thanks odm  |
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| Saying sorry doesn't change things, in my opinion.
If the overall message from the last few days is that people can bully others (and use possibly racist language to do so) and then say sorry when they get found out then I think that's a sorry state of affairs. |
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| I was so upset by her attacks on Shilpa and all the bullying....trouble is I forgive people too easily when they say sorry and I can see myself eventually forgiving Jade and feeling sorry for her, like you Becki.
She did terrible things though, and her boyfriend Jack seems really nasty......things he called Shilpa.
I have never forgiven Jayne from BB for what she said about Ash to Nikki, so i dont know yet with Jade. |
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| Why is all the focus on Jade though? Jade wasnt alone in the bullying, Danielle, Jo and Jack joined her but it seems everyone is blaming it on Jade, well the papers are anyway and so are some people on digistal spy. |
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| becki - 20/1/2007 16:39
Why is all the focus on Jade though? Jade wasnt alone in the bullying, Danielle, Jo and Jack joined her but it seems everyone is blaming it on Jade, well the papers are anyway and so are some people on digistal spy.
Probably because she's the most famous of the lot. The papers like to put celebrities on a pedestal and then knock them off it. |
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| Yeah deffo!!
I just dont think Jade deserves the hate shes getting. She didnt mean the things she said.
I've heard that Cleo is the new ringleader and that the new victim is true. I suppose we'll have to keep watching to find out what happens, maybe people will realise that it wasnt Jades fault afterall.
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| This is all Jade's own fault. I beleive that she is not a rasist. But she is definately a bully. I have been bullied in my life so i know what it feels like. But i do beleive that Jo and Daniele have behaved worse than Jade with there rasist remarks. |
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| dal1966 - 20/1/2007 19:54
This is all Jade's own fault. I beleive that she is not a rasist. But she is definately a bully. I have been bullied in my life so i know what it feels like. But i do beleive that Jo and Daniele have behaved worse than Jade with there rasist remarks.
Exactly! Yet people seemed to forget that, and blame Jade completely. |
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| I don't feel sorry for Jade at all, she has been a bully on every reality TV show I've seen her in and it's about time she got pulled up for it. I agree that a lot of focus has been put on her, but her bullying was worse and she should have known better because she has been through all of this before. I think Jade just thought she was invincible and expected people to cheer her on no matter who she was screaming at.
I don't think Jo and Danielle should get off scot free though, and I don't think that will be the case. |
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| I think Jo and Danielle will get off lightly compare to Jade, i might be wrong though.
Even though on Digital Spy, people are saying that watching live feed today Dirk is the new victim and Cleo is the new ringleader. I dont know how true it is, but we will have to wait and see what happens, i just hope it isnt bad coz its just not fair. |
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| There's an interview with Jade in today's NOTW (which she wasn't paid for) where she admits she was racist and was being a bully.
http://www.newsoftheworld.co.uk/jade1.shtml
There are also some video interviews on the site. |
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| Thank you for posting that Maringo. I dont watch BB avidly this time around and from half of the comments that are made there I realise I did not hear all of them.If I had heard ALL of them I would have seriously wondered how Jade is going to face her future, not that I dont already. Personally speaking I feel Jade has some very distressing psychological problems. I wonder how deep they go...I am not sure...but it seems to me that BB aside Jade has a personality that is always needing to 'prove' itself. Clearly Jade has been a victim of bullying in her past...but she should have been heavily counseled as there are certain problems I feel have not resolved themself. She in my opinion also does not like strong men...she appears to need to wear the trousers to much...this could come from her mother...its not a good sign. Her relationship with Jack wont last. |
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I feel sorry for Jade